Really? Really???

Japan take two was great, but there is a series of complicated life events surrounding us, and we leave for Hawaii day after tomorrow:

• Mother-in-law wants more opiates than her doctor wants her to have and is pitching fits
• Mom's best friend of 75 years is in hospice
• Mom's caregivers are flaky (this item seems small by comparison, but I've filled in by spending every day with her since I came home, and I'm beat)
• One of our favorite cousins had a major stroke yesterday
• #2 cat is violently ill and is puking and drooling
• Middlesis isn't speaking to me

Should I stay home to deal with some of this?

Argh.